THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS

As women we are a complex creature. Men can all gather in one common place drink, smoke, play cards and video games. Watch sports, even watch strippers together and have no problems whatsoever. While I've noticed a lot of women have groups of girlfriends in various categories: best friends, childhood/neighborhood girlfriends, work/school girlfriends, party/vacation girlfriends, and the boyfriend/husband's friend's girl/wife.


In a way that is completely unexplainable we can somehow manage to juggle and keep these girlfriends separate up until the day we get married! Which by that time it really doesn't matter because after a few months you will most likely only hang out with your married girlfriends. I mean let's face it who wants a bunch of single party girls around their husband. I'm not married so I don't have to deal with that harsh reality as of yet. Even if I were I really don't think I would have that problem. I am honestly, truly blessed when it comes to the friend department. I have beautiful male and female friends that I love and adore dearly. Some who have been in my life for many years while others most of my life.

You see I'm a girl's girl, we can talk about it all, shop, lunch/brunch, sip cocktails, trade recipes, fix our hair, do make-up, have spa dates, cry at our favorite movies and dance to our favorite songs. I'm also a guy's girl, my dudes and I can talk relationships, go to sporting events (preferably boxing), take back a couple of shots, pop some bottles, have a scotch  or cognac, smoke a cigar, ride out to our favorite songs, have some wings and hit the strip joint. It is that idiosyncrasy that sets me apart from the rest. I truly wish that everyone could have these kinds of  friendships because I know I have something that not everyone can have. I have the best of both worlds and I love it!

Smooches…Ms. Milky Gabor